attractingwomentoday.com » when to call http://attractingwomentoday.com/blog Dating tips for guys. How to attract women... Mon, 19 Dec 2011 23:15:05 +0000 en hourly 1 Calling women Up On The Phone- How much is too much and how much is not enough? http://attractingwomentoday.com/blog/calling-women-up-on-the-phone-how-much-is-too-much-and-how-much-is-not-enough/ http://attractingwomentoday.com/blog/calling-women-up-on-the-phone-how-much-is-too-much-and-how-much-is-not-enough/#comments Sat, 12 Sep 2009 12:02:06 +0000 Mike http://attractingwomentoday.com/blog/?p=23 Yet Another Related Posts Plugin.]]> I read a great email from Scott Mckay(xandycommunications.net) yesterday about calling women on the phone. He went into detail on this topic. Some nice guidelines and thoughts to consider.

A reader had told about his experiences with not calling enough leading to the relationship going away sooner than he wanted. But he had reservations about calling too much due to a lot of the other information on dating out there.

Once you build the attraction and get her number, you need to call at least every few days until you get a date. She is getting lots of attention from other guys, if you don’t call at all for days and days she will forget about you. And assume you are not very interested.

Once you have had a good date with her. Call about 2 or 3 days later to chat for 10 minutes, see if you feel she is waiting for you to ask her out again. If you get that feel, set something tentative up at least.

Call her again in 2 days or so. Your duty is to get a second date now.

After 2 dates, if things went well call her every 2 or 3 days. Don’t ask for a date everytime, just chat and see how she is doing. Tell her what funny thing you did today.

Don’t wait for her to call, I didn’t learn this for awhile but most women will not call you, they will wait for you to call in the beginning. Now after she is totally into you, she will start calling you. This is good, it is the definite indicator of interest.

If she is calling you, and you like her. You better be calling her more often. Now you are in a relationship even if it is not exclusive yet.

A call every 3 days is really expected at this point. And keep asking her to go do fun things.

Calling every day is too much unless she has really fallen for you and you want to get exclusive. Then she will be calling you 6 times a day ;) Humor her. Let her call but make sure you are busy not just sitting around waiting for her to call. That is not attractive to anybody.

Some phone calling guidelines for guys. They are not written in stone but they may help you keep your early relationships moving along happily.

If you wait 4 to 7 days to call, she will take that as not interested enough.

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