You have to be totally secure, if you feel like it isn’t going to go well, it wont.

Approach directly and fast, Don’t stand there thinking. See her, decide you want to go and talk to her and move in. The 3 second rule is good to follow, it shows you are sure of yourself.

Don’t look at her for 5 minutes before you walk over. Spot her, and then move so it will make perfect sense why you are walking by. You don’t have to keep looking at her, just a quick look, see what she is doing and who she is with.

Next, pull yourself together, ideally you will have already been talking to other people so you are warmed up a little.

The approach needs an opener. Situationals are best, make it an easy one that you know works. Approach her to within a few feet at an angle, don’t confront her aiming right at her. Get her attention and say your opener. Get her laughing about something that is going on around her.

Don’t lean in, stay upright, you are just making conversation. Use good eye contact and smile. See what she is up to, make a joke, a light tease about something she is wearing is good.

You are a cool, calm and strong man, act like it. It doesn’t even matter if she likes you or not. You are just having fun and finding out a little about her.

Involve her friends but she should be your obvious target. But keep her guessing a little. Watch her reactions and gauge your next move. Let her get involved in the conversation and start giving you some indicators of interest. Then you reward her with small amounts of approval mixed with reasons why you two will never get along.

This opener doesn’t need to be more than 2 or 3 minutes long. Just say, ” hey nice chatting but I have to go find my friends” “Catch you later”

Wander off and go back to her a little later and start vibing with her. Just chat and get her into you.

Secrets to atracting and approaching women:

1. Body Language
2. Eye Contact
3. Humor
4. Be expressive – use your emotions to get her emotional
5. Don’t over stay
6. Social Proof – be seen talking to and having fun with other women
7. Be having a good time and not too serious
8. Vibe like it is no big deal
9. Well dressed – great shoes, great grooming
10. Don’t ask 20 questions, make statements about things
11. You don’t need her approval
12. Don’t be too eager or too into her at the start – lean back

Some great tips to get you more women in your life.

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