Women are looking at your attributes and value more than your looks.   If you show your value by demonstrating the attributes she finds attractive, attraction to you builds automatically.  She can’t control this.

Using humor (major attribute) to make her feel emotions and have fun is one way to get her attracted to you regardless of your looks.

Here is a great article on Attracting Girls Through Humor from artofapproaching.com.

A lot of guys really get caught up with their “looks” when it comes to attracting women.

They think only “good looking guys” can get girls into them.  However, they’re only focusing on ONE SMALL ASPECT of attraction.

See, men place a large importance on physical attractiveness because that’s what initially attracts us to women – their looks.

So we assume that women must be attracted to our looks as well!

Now, I’m not going to tell you that your physical appearance plays no role in whether or not a woman finds you attractive, because it does.

But it isn’t as IMPORTANT as you might think it is.

To women, physical appearance is only a SMALL FACTOR when it comes to attraction.  (Sure, there are exceptions, but for the most part, I’ve found this to be the case.)

A bigger factor in a woman’s attraction to a man is how he can make her FEEL.

Understand – women are emotional creatures.  They’re more hard-wired to respond emotionally than men are.  This is just how nature made them.

If you can appeal to her EMOTIONALLY, even if you’re not her “physical type,” you can still attract her.

And nothing creates emotion more powerful than HUMOR.

So let’s talk about how you can use humor to attract women to you…

First of all, let me just get something straight with you:  YOU DO NOT NEED TO BE FUNNY TO USE HUMOR!

Yes, I know, that might sound confusing.  Let me explain…

A big obstacle most guys run into with using humor is that limiting belief:  “But I’m just not that funny!”

However, this means they don’t really know what “humor” means to begin with.

See, “Humor” is a state of mind.  It’s an attitude.  It’s about being positive, not about being funny.

“Funny” is a verb to describe something you do.  “Humor” is meant to describe what you’re experiencing.

So when I talk about using “humor,” I’m really talking about using fun, positive energy to excite and inspire people around you.

And most of the time, that will make the people around you laugh, joke, and have a good time!

So get the idea out of your head that you need to be funny to use humor.  It’s just not the case!

Instead, you should focus on the following things… read the rest here

Attracting Girls Through Humor

If you use humor in your interactions,  more women will find themselves attracted to you.   They will want to spend more time with you which is door number one to reach with any woman.

Make her laugh,  get her engaged and wanting more.

Wanting more is Attraction.  You will actually feel it when she is in the moment with you.

So forget what you look like, if you can use a little bit of humor in every approach your odds of success will go way up.   You can not change what you look like, but you can totally change how you interact with women.  Don’t be a clown non stop but use some humor to get through her shields and have some fun.

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It most likely is your body language and attitude. The secret is acting like a guy who is good with women. You have seen the guys who get this and do amazing things with women in minutes.

You have to become that guy. I know this is a drastic change and you don’t feel like doing it. But if you want to start dating lots of women, it is a must. So you have to ask yourself “do you want women in your life?” If yes, you have to start doing things different. It really isn’t too hard, it is just getting out of your comfort zone so you can meet and start getting more dates.

The attitude is everything, fake it in the beginning and after just a few good interactions, you will naturally do it right.

Picture the ladies man in your head and get yourself pumped up to be that guy when you meet a woman. Smooth, charming with no agenda other than having a fun time with her. Make her laugh and have a good time. Don’t worry about you, get her happy and feeling good.

Keep it light and tease her, you are not trying for approval. You are giving her the chance to prove she is worth your time.

Look your best, go up and start talking about interesting things and make her have a good time. If she doesn’t like you, it is not your fault. Some will, some wont. Keep looking for the ones who do like you.

Don’t try to impress, just have fun and get her talking. Watch your body language and maintain eye contact. Don’t be looking at the floor or fidgeting, you are a ladies man.

Act like one, you have seen hundreds of them, you know how they move and talk. Only talk about positives and fun things, no negatives at all. She is looking for fun and excitement.

Looks are just not important to a woman, the way they are for guys. How she feels with you is the important thing.

Keep your eyes open and you will catch women looking at you. Look back and smile and go say hello.

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