Guys are always wondering how the heck do you know if a girl actually likes you.   Is there a way to at least get a hint of proof or evidence.   Now first of all, you will get better results if you don’t worry about it and ASSUME she likes you.   Because by now you should realize what a woman says is not always the truth.   They often say the opposite of the truth for a variety of reasons.

They don’t like to feel bad for making you feel bad so they will say what they have to.  They are experts at reading guys and they usually know what we are feeling.

The only thing that really matters is what actually happens.  What she actually does.  Not what she says.   So waiting for proof of attraction is not a good idea.

Best to assume she likes you if she is still talking to you actively.  Assume she likes you if she gives you her number.  Assume she likes you if she goes on a date with you.

But I know it is nice to see some signs of attraction so here is a good article with 7 signs a woman likes you…

The Look In Her Eyes

When She’s Interested: She will look at you with a kind of shy eye contact, while holding her eyes looking slightly down and raising her eyebrows. For some occasions, she will also hold long eye contact with you, to indicate that she’s interested.

This technique of looking down creates the feeling of shyness, which many men find attractive and even magical.

When a woman uses this technique for several times, it creates the feeling of a flirting game, as if her eyes are trying to hide from you.

When She’s Not Interested: She’ll avoid eye contact, frequently look to the sides or just watch things happening around her. She might look at her nails or check the time.

Her Tonality

When She’s Interested: Her tone will be diverse and usually lower than usual, and occasionally she’ll add the tone of a question, which means she’s looking for your approval. She might talk slowly, and this will subconsciously create a romantic and sexual voice. But she might also talk pretty rapidly and confused, because she’s excited and wants to prevent any “awkward silence”.

When She’s Not Interested: Her voice will be monotonous and boring, and she might add some groans, as a signal of her frustration and disinterest.

Her Posture

When She’s Interested: She’ll straighten up occasionally in order to highlight her breasts. Sometimes, she’ll do it by touching and pulling her hair. If you’re standing, you might also notice that she’s sending her butt backwards, to highlight it as well. A woman will usually show her interest by leaning forwards.

When She’s Not Interested: She’ll sit with her hands clasped or around the chest, as if she’s keeping her feelings to herself. You’ll see her leaning backwards, and not changing her posture often.

Is She Leaning Forward?

Playing With Objects

When She’s Interested: She’s moving her finger around the edge of her glass, and playing with the drinking straw, fork, spoon, pen, etc.

She can be also playing with her clothes – touching her rings, opening or touching a button, touching her shirt. This all shows that she’s excited around you.

When She’s Not Interested: She is focused on a specific object, and she’s not playing gently or sensually with this object – on the contrary. She might also use this objet to create a gap between you.

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Some great ideas of things to look for when you are talking to a woman.  But don’t wait until you see them.  Women like a guy who takes the initiative and is proactive.   A leader.

So lead them where you want to go in the interaction.  If you go too far,  simply back off what you are doing a notch.  Watch for her reactions and get a feel for what she likes.

Keep it fun.  Keep it relaxed without pressure.

So you have yourself an online dating profile and you are emailing possibles.   Where are you going to take her when she agrees to meet?   Are you going to spend a lot of money before you actually know what she looks like?

Heck no.  Keep it very simple and low budget.

You may be in for a surprise when you see her for the first time.   She may not be like you expected at all.  People exaggerate online a lot.

So this is just a quick meeting to get out of the way.  The real date will come later if you both choose.

This article by David Wygant has some good tips and ideas:

So you’ve met a new woman on line and you’re really, really excited.Now wait a minute… I’m not talking about on line, as in on a dating website. I’m talking about on LINE, meaning the line at the movie theater, the line waiting to get into a club, that kind of line.

I must say that those are some of the best places to meet women. While you’re waiting on line you can talk to her by basically saying to yourself, “Wow this is so ridiculous. What’s the line for because the place is empty in there!”

Then you can start a conversation and ask her if she’s ever been in the place you’re waiting for before. Listen real carefully to what she said so that you can transition out of opener-land and quickly get into a real conversation with her.

When you’re on line, when you need to get into a place, it’s your opportunity to leave a sense of who you are. That way, once you’re in the place, she starts looking for you. She starts wanting to be with you before all the other guys come over and start trying to hit on her, screaming in her ear, and all the other stuff.

But now let’s talk about online, meaning actual online dating.

You want an idea for a first date when you meet someone online? Let me tell you something. Do not spend a single penny for an online date. Alright, you can spend $10. Never take a woman out to dinner that you met online for a first date.

Why? You have no idea what she looks like, you have no idea if she’s as pretty as her pictures make her out to be, and you have no idea if you two are even going to have any chemistry in person. So don’t make any more of the date than it is.

All an online first date is, is a simple meet and greet. That’s it. So what I would do is find a really good coffee shop. A great coffee shop that is fun. Not like a Starbucks, but kind of like one of those small funky little coffee shops. Something amusing. I’d also find a place you can go and take a walk around.

You could walk around a lake, walk around a park or something really simple like that. That’s of course if the weather is nice, and it’s not the middle of winter. But above all else, I keep my online first dates real simple.

Find a little bar where you can just have a nice glass of wine or something. You don’t want to spend a lot of money on somebody who you may or may not be attracted to. So the cardinal rule that I always have with online dating is to always go with your three key places.

What are those places?

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Some really good ideas for keeping your first meeting after finding a possible date online.  I think,  having 4 places planned in advance is great.   You will get really comfortable with your dating routine.  You can run a hundred women through your dating experience.

The more comfortable you get the better they will respond.

Here is a great article on how to meet girls.   You need to go places and get out there ie. build your social circle up.   The more people you know and the more times you meet up with them socially, the more chances you will have to meet a girl to ask out.

Staying home all the time or just limiting your time to the same group of people doesn’t help you meet new people.  You need to be meeting new people.  This article has 2 great ideas for getting social quickly.

The Best Way To Meet Girls

If you really want to learn how to meet girls, you need to really only master two things.

1. You need to be in or create (more on that below) situations where there will be girls.
2. You need to be able to generate attraction with the girls that you meet.

Well read this whole article and I will explain the best way to master how to meet and attract girls.

These Girls Are Definitely Ready To Meet A Guy

I’ve found that there are two really great ways to meet girls.

1. Join an online dating site such as Match.com.
2. Expand your social circle, and let that social circle bring more girls into your life.

So let’s say you want to expand your social circle?  Well the first thing you need to do is look at your life — do you naturally come into contact with others? Do you know a bunch of different people from different areas of your life? Well the first thing to do is to take charge and bring them all together. An easy way to do this is to set up an informal, casual event.

For instance, say you know a really cool new bar. About five days ahead of time, start inviting everyone you know to meet there on Friday night at 8 p.m. So when you are at the coffee shop, tell the girls or guys behind the counter that you and a bunch of friends are meeting at this new really hip bar and that they should come and bring their friends.

Did you notice I said tell the girls and guys? Absolutely, building your social circle is a huge part of meeting girls. That cool guy behind the counter might have an awesome little sister he invites or a cool friend who brings her cool friend. What about the guys and gals in your office? Same thing. Tell them about it, as well. Always use the same language: that you and your friends are meeting and they should come and bring friends. The key being that you are already going to be there with friends and they should bring their friends. The more the merrier.

So be the leader. Take charge and set something up.  This will naturally make you more attractive to the girls who show up.

If you suddenly realize you don’t know anyone to ask to set something like this up, your next step is to start becoming involved in social activities.

For instance, a great way to meet girls is to join a volleyball team and then ask all your teammates to go get a drink. Tell them to bring their friends.

Pretty soon, you will have created a social circle.

 

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It is pretty simple?

Just start meeting more people and getting out there.   You can start organizing weekly get togethers and then spread the word and tell others to come and bring friends.  Now you will be out having fun, with a constant influx of new people.   Invite both guys and girls,  good looking and average.

As the organizer it puts you into the leadership role (attractive)  The more you do this the better you get at it and the more women are going to be coming up to you.