Flirting Tips

Proven Flirting Tips

Why flirt? It is critical to your success at dating otherwise you will set yourself up to be thought of as a friend only. If you don't show the woman you are interested in her as a woman, you will never sleep with her. Use these flirting tips to guarantee you don't wind up stuck as a womans friend.

 

But you can't be too direct about it. Flirting allows you to let her know but in a fun and respectable way. And it isn't all about what you say. How you say and move are the most important factors. Attitude and body language are what she is really paying attention to.

 

Flirting is fun for the woman. They eat it up and love it. But flirting alone wont get you to the finish line. It is the starting point. So keep it fun and playful at all times and move to rapport as soon as you can. Too much flirting will annoy her. Keep moving things forward at her pace. In order to look attractive to her you must build the attraction.

 

What is flirting?

 

It is a different language, it is english but it is not standard communication. There is an implied meaning to your words and how you are talking. Flirting builds attraction in a girls eye for a guy. And remember it is about 70% non-verbal, your body language and eyes are talking to her. Women get it almost instantly and will flirt back with you. Guys need to learn flirting, it is not obvious to most guys.

 

You want to tease playfully with joking and fun stories. Use what she says and turn it into sexual meanings but in a fun way, you are playing. Give her a look and say "You know what they say about women who have curly hair" What do they say? "You know" while giving her the screwy motion with your fingers.

 

 

• Tell her to stop trying to pick you up.
• Bump into her and blame her.
• When she does something wrong, act like it is the end of the world with a smile on your face.
• Tease her about anything. Don't be sarcastic, she has to know you are obviously playing.
• Tell her to stop picking on you.
• Tell her "This relationship is not working out. I am breaking up with you"
• When she says she is moving. Tell her " What we just met, I am not moving in with you this soon. Slow it down sparky."

When she starts playing with digs of her own, respond by keeping the flirt going. Women love this game. Let her enjoy it.

 

Flirting is also done with looks and eye contact alone. See if you can get her to play back. You two will be in your own little bubble of reality. You should also work in some incidental contact while flirting.

 

• Push her.
• Tickle her.
• Give her arm a squeeze.
• Poke her in the stomach.
• While walking, lean into her and force her off track a little.

Little things like this make the interaction fun for her. And Women are looking for fun all the time. Be her fun guy in the moment and you may be her fun guy for awhile. Give them what they want and you will be someone she really wants around.

 

These are a few flirting tips that should get you rolling. There are some excellent books and websites on flirting to check out. Read as much as you can but make sure and practice your flirting every single day. You can flirt with any woman, just keep it fun and have no immediate goals. Remember this is all about fun and giving off good vibes to the girl.